What do I do when my wife neglects me physically, mentally, and ually?

So you go to the gym, work out and come home knowing that you did this all not for your benefit but for the benefit of a woman who openly tells you that you are a burden and not a loved, respected husband? You have to realize how ludicrous that is. Why should you care about how divorce ravages children when staying with an emasculating man hating woman is ravaging your will to live? You are beyond silly and actually openly practicing a sadistic lifestyle that should be put to rest. If you'd rather be with her than be alone I'd recommend you begin collecting various alcohols and mixers for a first cl bar. Consider bartending cl or training yourself well so that you can do it yourself without the expense. At the very least enjoy something outside of the openly mean, horriffic lifestyle you have now. Mix yourself a couple nice strong drinks at night and watch some sportscenter or whatever you enjoy on a large plasma tv and tell her to screw herself when she opens her piehole. It may not be the peace you really desire but the best answer I could give you outside of leaving what I'd consider a hell on earth. Good luck